In an ideal situation, both parents will be cooperative and fully involved in all decisions and actions regarding the upbringing of their children after divorce. The reality of most divorces requires the court to step in and help when parents are unable to agree. In...
Divorce
3 self-care techniques for divorce
During a divorce, you have the responsibility for making many difficult decisions. At the same time, you have to continue to take care of your kids, hold down a job or run a business. Keeping up with everything can be demanding, but be sure to reserve some time to...
What is nesting?
Even if your divorce is comparatively conflict-free, coming up with a comprehensive parenting plan is challenging. One of the most difficult aspects is figuring out your family's new living situation if you and your ex-spouse share custody of the children. The most...
Retaining your 401(k) in your divorce
Past posts on this blog addressed the fact that your 401(k) is subject to property division during your divorce in Illinois. You may look at your 401(k) as one of the primary sources of income during your retirement years. Thus, having to divide up any portion of it...
Factors that affect whether you receive maintenance after divorce
Financial independence is a primary concern for people ending their marriage, particularly when one spouse supported the other financially. Perhaps you left a job to take care of your kids and home full-time, or you sacrificed your own career ambitions to support your...
5 mistakes to avoid in preparing a parenting plan for mediation
If you are facing divorce, helping your children adjust to the next chapter in their lives will be top of mind. Many divorcing parents choose mediation and sit down together to work out an effective parenting plan. In doing so, here are five mistakes to avoid. 1....
Is there a right time to tell your child you are getting a divorce?
As a parent, telling your child is one of the hardest parts of divorce. Every child reacts to big news in a different way. It is hard or even impossible to get a good grasp on how yours might take it. But you understandably want to make the process as easy as...
Sleep deprivation and divorce
If you are working through a tough divorce, it is very likely that you are experiencing high levels of anxiety, which can disrupt various facets of your daily life (such as your sleep schedule). Moreover, if you are struggling with a sleep disorder, this can also make...
How can I help my kids through a divorce during the holidays?
If you and your spouse separated or got divorced in the last year, the upcoming holiday season may bring about a whole new set of questions and challenges for you when it comes to planning activities for your kids. The usual family traditions you shared as a married...
Will divorce put an end to the family business?
Years ago when you and your spouse launched the family business, its possible demise through divorce never entered your thoughts. However, the successful business you built does not have to end along with your marriage. Here are three options to consider. Perform a...
