Divorce is more common now than it has been in the past few decades. You may wonder what contributes to those decisions.
There are a few common reasons for couples to pursue divorce.
1. Lack of communication
One of the most frequently cited reasons for divorce is a communication breakdown. Couples who do not share feelings, needs and concerns in constructive ways can develop resentment, misunderstandings and disconnect. Make communication a priority by setting aside uninterrupted time to catch up daily and discuss any issues openly and honestly.
2. Financial disagreements
Money is often a source of conflict in marriages. Differing attitudes about spending, saving, debt, financial goals and responsibility can chip away at the foundation of a relationship. Compromise and transparency are important. Share financial values, maintain joint bank accounts and stick to a realistic budget you both agree on.
3. Infidelity
An affair often leads directly to divorce. Rebuilding trust after infidelity is challenging but can be possible if both spouses commit to healing. Marriage counseling helps many couples recover. But avoiding temptation in the first place is wise. Nurture intimacy and honesty in your relationship and steer clear of risky situations.
4. Lack of intimacy
When spouses start living separate lives, growing apart emotionally and physically, the disconnect can lead to infidelity, constant conflict or eventual divorce. Make nurturing intimacy and affection a priority. Set aside time for regular date nights, deep conversations and physical closeness.
Understanding the most common causes of divorce can help you decide if this is the right path for your situation.
